re your comment on my blog, thanks for the support! my personal opinion on negative commentors is that if you can dish it out, you can take it. i really think if you dont have something nice or constructively critical to say, you shouldn't say anything at all. i am a very kind and tolerant persom, i swear. but i have no patience for anonymous negative lurkers. the big fight in question on meghann's blog was really stupid because that girl ATTACKED and completely SLANDERED me for something that i didn't even say in the first place (and then she attacked me again for saying it wasn't me!). i really don't understand people, but i'm not going to kiss someone's ass who is completely out of line just to keep one reader. i keep it real, ya'll. 🙂